- I woke up in the morning -

The alarm buzzing shake off the dream of you,

Wipe off the drool of you,

The smile on my face because of you.

Took my shower, singing a song about you,

Put on a dress that looks good for you,

Sprayed perfume given by you,

Swayed in front of the mirror, so I am nice by you,

Left the house, thinking about you,

My heart, still beating for you,

The whole day picturing you,

So why am I still a bad girlfriend,

According to you?

+ 4th Painting For Mr.Boyfriend +

lady in red

Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.
Thomas Merton

+ My Third Painting for Mr. Boyfriend +

The Reflection

Every good painter paints what he is - Jackson Pollock

$ Final Day - The Day 7 : King of The DAy $

Bobotie with tomato sambal

today, the King of the Day - the 7th day. Finally it comes to the end, My 7 days of Love. It is hard as I am not a housewife who has lots of time to do things like this. But I made it, and it does make us closer and appreciate each other.

I supposed to make him breakfast on bed and really treat him like a king, but lots of things happen, so I just can afford to make him a South African dish called Bobotie. I just followed the recipe and enjoying it. Mr. Boyfriend said it tastes nice.

For MR. Boyfriend, I take this opportunity to let you know that I come across many people in my life, but in you, I see the person I want to be with. Ek is lief vir jou.

“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”

+ Day 6 - APPRECIATion +

We had training today for Asia Water Exhibition in April, not much I can Do, so I just bought A Moist Chocolate Cake and gave it to him as a symbol of appreciation from me.

"I would rather be able to appreciate things I cannot have
than to have things I am not able to appreciate."
Elbert Hubbard

+ Day 5 - Sharing Is caring +

Today we share each other like and dislike.

Song of the day: Your love is my love - Whitney Houston

Style of the day: Jeans, White T, Boots

Book of the day: Can You Keep a Secret - Sophie Kinsella

Food of the day: Nandos Lemon and Herbs

~ Day 4 : Companionship ~

Dear, if you change, I’ll never choose again;

Sweet, if you shrink, I’ll never think of love;

Fair, if you fail, I’ll judge all beauty vain;

Wise, if too weak, more wits I’ll never prove.

Dear, sweet, fair, wise,-change, shrink, nor be not weak;

And on my faith, my faith shall never break.

Earth with her flowers shall sooner heaven adorn;

Heaven her bright stars through, earth’s dim globe shall move;

Fire heat shall lose, and frosts of flame be born;

Air, made to shine, as black as hell shall prove:

Earth, heaven, fire, air, the world transformed shall view,

Ere I prove false to faith, or strange to you.

-John Dowland-

I started day 4 by giving him Ferrero Roche and prunes to have during meeting in HQ today. Sweet and sour, just like how our life is. After office hour, we met in Borneo Rainforest, Sunway then we went for some aromatherapy massage. Simple yet relaxing.

~ Day 3 : REVEALation ~

we share our heart

"Stranger is just someone we don't know yet"

We are all strangers before we know each other. I rather share than not knowing about him. Even the small details maybe big in other's eye. Day 3 is about revelation of myself to him. Just considering myself as his total stranger. I started out by sending him sms of my life secret every hour. Something simple yet differentiate myself from others. Maybe it is a small little secret, but we don't know how much different it will make when we share.

It's been 12 hours of sharing these little secret of mine starting from 8am till 8pm. Then I asked him to come to the Sport's Bar Bangsar and acted like a total stranger. He is a good actor too I must say, he came in and sat at a different table (cute), then I asked the bartender to send him a glass of wine, complimentary from the lady come with the invitation for him to join my table. Pity that bartender who like blur blur how come this lady can ask a total stranger to join her, gwailo some more. If he knows..

After introduced his name, he talked about himself and we laughed and tell stories. Feel like the first time I met him. Anyway, day 3 worked so well. and thanks to my friend Kaveh that willing to involve in this total act.

"how can I be a mess when I have your eyes as green as meadow,

How can I be lost when I have your skin as fair as light,

and how can I be poor when I have your hair shining as gold,

I said I am small but then I have your arms to shield me,

I said I am blue but then I have your laugh that give me garden,

I said I am lonely but I have your heart to pair mine,

and How can I said I don't have enough?"

Day 2 - AFFECTION

What is love without affection. Its like perfume without smells. empty.

So for the 2nd day, the theme is AFFECTION. After scratching my head I decided that today I am going to show my affection on him by being super romantic, meaning every hour I am going to send him love sms without fail.

I started with giving him Love Song CD. Instrumental. Really a nice CD. and it's not even from a famous singer, just a cover version from one group performing in a cafe. I really recommend it for a love gift.

nice eh

In case that anyone need a love quote, these are all the message that i send him (he is so full of emotion each time he gets my message). Cheers.


8.00am
If I can say nice things about u by counting each star on the sky, I'll cover the whole Universe.

9.00am
They say 1000 words about you, but i only have 3, I . Love . You


10.00
When I see you smile and I know it's not for me, that is when i miss you the most

11.00
To be your friend is all I ever wanted, to be your lover is all I ever dreamed.

12.00

There was a time when the world is closing down on me, I thought that it's going to be the end of me, then I see you. And it's the beginning...

13.00
I laugh, I love, I hope, I try I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different, me and you.


14.00
I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you


15.00
The best thing about me is you.


16.00
For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

17.00
Sometimes the eyes cant see the great things. That's why I close my eyes when I kiss you.


18.00
love maybe blind, but true love open your eyes.


19.00
There are times when you are busy and ignore me and least deserves my love, that is when i will love you more because that is when you need me the most.


20.00
I have something important to tell you before I forget, I LOVE YOU.


and Finally, I put a rose under his pillow and gave him before he sleeps.

Later days...
p/s: remember to read what happen on the 3rd day
:)

~ ~ 7 DaYS oF LoVe MiSsion ~~

Me Loving Him

Mr Boyfriend is so busy with work lately, and me, well just being ME. Feeling lazy all the times and if that is not enough, I created a new hobby of being a sleepy head. Before the situation gets bad, I decided to spice up our love life. Learning from the experiences (bad one i dare say), I put on a mission called "7 Days Of Love". 7 days of different elements to make sure our love grows stronger. Don't get excited yet, cos it's easy to plan than materialize it. So just stay with me and see how it goes. :)

Day 1 - Declaration


My plan
1. Annoys him, make him angry, being distant and change to silent mode the whole day. Make it worse by refusing to reply his calls and sms.
2. Go back home by myself, change the bedroom to treasure hunt (love notes hunt is better) and wait for him.
3. When he comes back home, annoys him some more till he gets angry and goes to the room and find all the notes.
4. He feels surprise by my wickedness and touch by my romantic plan
5. He grows fonder of me.


It turns out to be
1. I forgot that we have corporate photography session in the office today organized by him, so I am going to see him early in the morning. And he will be asking me to help with the photo sessions. So cant annoy him in the public nor making him angry.
2. Try to change to plan B, he went back to his own office after lunch, so then i turn to silent mode. Didn't reply his sms and when have to, I just answer as shorter as I can with just 'OK' or 'yes' or 'fine'. Plan worked so well. He keep on asking "what's wrong with me", and me...just laugh EVIL-Ly. Hua hua ha ha ha
3.After work I went straight to Subang Parade to get his present for the big night. End up in a shopping spree. So much of nice things that caught my eyes. Ahhh temptation definitely so hard to resist. By the time I finished, it's so hard to get a cab back home, so had to call Mr.Boyfriend to pick me up. (shameful)
4. At home, Nuom Sa the Maid already cook, Mr.Boyfriend went straight to his room and took a really long shower. What the heck, I don't have time for the treasure hunt. When he finally finished, i quickly prepare his dinner and ran upstairs and quickly put all the notes.

Note 1 : at the dressing table - "I make you angry (bathroom mirror next)

Note 2 : At the bathroom mirror - Annoy you (your pillow)

The Present : with 100 love Notes in the jar that he can read everyday for 100 Days

5.Went down and ate dinner, Mr. Boyfriend keep on asking whats wrong. I say I am fine. But feeling restless thinking when he wants to go to the room. I decided i cant wait any longer and being on Silent Mode is so hard. So I asked him where is his phone. "In my pocket", he said. Damn. "You're weird", nice comment. before i going berserk, i asked him to go to the room and checked the mirror. He said,"OK".
6. It took him so long, so I called his cell and asked him whether he found my present, dissapointingly he did not sounds happy. And it turned out that he went straight to the last point, which is the present! He supposed to go through all the notes first.
7. Well he not so touched by my charm (i got spanked cos I make him depressed by my silent mode) but it does make him more sweeter afterwards. So practically it works. :)


Moral of the DECLARATION
1.Make sure your boyfriend or spouse is not MECHANICAL Engineer : too practical to be "touched"
2.Make sure you are not a shopaholic : you get lost along the way.
3.You have to balance it, between making him annoyed, angry or whatever and dropping hints that a surprise is waiting for him, or else things will turn out bad. (Imagine short temper BF)


That is how it goes with the 1st day, wait for 2Nd day agenda.


Later days.....